What’s the dress code?

Formal attire. For the gentlemen, a tie and jacket are required and refrain from wearing a bright colored jacket. Ladies, please avoid wearing red or white or ivory — those colors are strictly off-limits for the evening. Other than that, dress sharp, feel fabulous, and maybe choose something with a little stretch… we plan on feeding you well.

Can I bring my kids?

We love your little ones, but this will be an adults-only evening. Consider this your official excuse for a kid-free night of great food, drinks and dancing. Book that babysitter, enlist the grandparents, and come celebrate with us!

Where is everything happening?

Ceremony at abc cocina —> Dinner at abc kitchen —>After-party at [TBD]. Everything is in NYC, and yes, we’ll guide you from place to place so no one gets lost.

What’s on the menu?

Food:

Family Style Feast

If you have any dietary restrictions, allergies, or strongly held opinions about cilantro (like Gary), let us know in advance!

Drinks:

In addition to wine and cocktails, we’re bringing out something extra special: Claire’s father’s baijiu—a spirit not for the faint of heart. Smooth, strong, and guaranteed to warm you up (or knock you out, depending on your tolerance), this is a rare treat that we’re excited to share.

Pace yourself if you’re signing up for the after-party—there will be plenty to drink there as well!

Do you have hotel recommendations?

Yes! Some of our friends are coming from out of town / overseas, and we’re working on securing room blocks at a nearby hotel. If you’ll need a place to stay, please let us know in your RSVP so we can get a headcount. Once the details are finalized, we’ll share the hotel info with you!

I have another question that’s not on here.

Text us! Or just show up and let the night unfold—we promise it’ll be a good time.